Recovering from Loss Redux
1. Same
2. Same
3. Same
4. Everything Is. In this phase you look around you and notice that things have changed. You may have hung onto some nice memories and habits from the old life, but you realize they are not necessary now. Sometimes called "internalizing the other." You now divest yourself of things you no long need and start from the beginning to have a life just like you did when you graduated from high school or college or started your first job. All is new and different. You stop making decisions the old way and begin making decisions based on what is. It's very exciting. Just don't go out of your way to begin the process of getting a new SO. You aren't ready. Believe me.
There just aren't enough hours in the day. I need a better time budget.
I love you all. Thanks for hanging around.
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